On Being a Mommy Dom

I am naturally more maternal, but what tends to be the case is either I’m more experienced in the ways of the world or I’m just smarter — either way the domme role does stem from an assumption of superiority in one respect or both. It’s not a know-it-all superiority that desires to show off or make the other feel stupid, but just an underlying assumption that is made, which lends authority to what I have to say and the advice I give. My goals are only to improve the lives of men who cannot improve it themselves by offering motherly guidance and wisdom. It’s not like these other “dommes” who tells the guy they’re worthless or that they’re better than them in every way. I just claim superiority in certain matters and I desire to use this “superior” knowledge to help others. I don’t like how these “fin-dom”s go about it; the superiority they claim to hold over the man has no real source outside of her saying so. There’s no aftercare which I believe is an important part of the dynamic and distinguishes it from a straight up abusive relationship.

I am a switch but I act as a Mommy Dom to some men (most typically younger).